Marriage Satisfaction

Most couples report that their marriage satisfaction declines after the birth of their first child and continues to decrease as they have more children.  This can be a result of factors including: the mothers increased work load, a change in priorities, and less time spent together.  There are several things a couple can do to prevent their relationship from declining.  During pregnancy the wife can help involve her husband in experiences such as feeling the baby kick and going to doctors appointments.  This will show the wife that the husband cares and that she and the baby are important to him.  It will also allow the husband to form an attachment to their baby and help his relationship with his wife improve.  After the baby is born it is important to share responsibilities in taking care of the child.  This will prevent unnecessary stress for both husband and wife.  Another way a couple can maintain an healthy relationship after the birth of the child is taking the time to love and show appreciation for each other.  It is easy to get caught up with work or taking care the baby but it is important for each spouse to know they are the number one priority.