Communication

Clear communication is vital for a family to function well.  Communication does not only include the words we say but also the tone in which we say it and our non verbal actions.  When we speak to someone 14% of the message comes across from the actual words, 35% from the tone, and 51% from non verbal actions.  Because we as humans are so visually oriented, we need to be aware of messages we are sending non verbally.  One way we can use good non verbal communication is to keep eye contact while having a conversation.  If either the speaker or listener has wandering eyes it leaves the message that they are not interested in the conversation.  Families that learn good communication skills will have less tension in their homes and feel a greater sense of unity as they are able to communicate their thoughts and feelings in a constructive way.